Sexual Behavior is behavior involving physical touch the limbs of men and women who have reached the stage of an intimate relationship, which is usually performed by married couples. While premarital sexual behavior is sexual behavior carried out without going through a formal process of marriage by law or religion and beliefs of each individual.
Premarital sexual behavior is indeed invisible, but it does not happen by itself but rather is driven or motivated by internal factors that can not be observed directly (not visible). Thus the individual is moved to do premarital sexual behavior.
Motivation is the driving behavior. The relationship between the two constructs are quite complex, among others, can be seen as follows: The same motivation can only move the different behaviors, as well as the same behavior can be driven by different motivations. Particular motivation will encourage someone to perform certain behaviors anyway. In an adolescent, premarital sexual behavior may be motivated by a sense of compassion and love dominated by a feeling of closeness and a high arousal to the spouse, without a clear commitment (in this case called Sternberg romantic love), or because of the influence of group (conformity), where teens want to be part of the group by following the norms that have been adopted by the group, in this case the group has conducted premarital sexual behavior.
Another factor that can influence a teen to have sex before marriage because he was driven by a huge curiosity to try everything that is not known. This is a juvenile traits in general, they want to know things that can only be satisfied and accomplishment through their own experience, "Learning by doing".
This is where the problems often arise in the lives of teenagers because they want to try everything, including those associated with ketubuhannya function that also involves partner. But behind it all, the internal factors affecting teen sexual behavior leading to premarital sexual behavior in adolescents is the development of the sexual organs. It is said that the gonads (sexual glands) are still working (primary sex) not only affects the body refinement (especially in relation to secondary sex characteristics), but also affect the lives of distant psychic, moral, and social.
In the psychic life of a teenager, the sexual organ development has a strong influence in teens' interest in the opposite sex. Ketertarikkan between opposite sex is then developed into a more serious pattern of dating and choosing a dating partner and romance to be set as a life partner. While the moral life, hand in hand with the workings of gonads, conflicts often arise in adolescents. The problem that arises is a result of sexual desire and moral reasoning are often contradictory.
When the sex drive is so big that a conflict is strong, then the sex drive tends to be won with various excuses to justify themselves.
Influence the development of the sexual organs of social life is that teens can make new friends, held a love relationship with the opposite sex. The love relationship is no longer manifest excessive veneration of the opposite sex and "puppy love" was not looked back. They really her adrift on an opposite sex, so it is bound by cords of love.
It should also be pointed out that the growth of sex glands (gonads) teen, is actually an integral part of the growth and overall physical development. In addition, the sexual energy or libido / desire too has experienced a long planting; Sigmund Freud said that sexual urges are accompanied by lust or libido has existed since the formation of Id. However, the sex drive is experiencing maturity at the age of adolescence. Therefore, the presence of this growth is required distribution in the form of specific sexual behaviors.
Pretty naive if we did not mention environmental factors, which have a role no less important motivating factor other premarital sexual behavior. Environmental factors varied kinds, no playmates (peer-group), the influence of media and television, and even her own parents factor.
In adolescence, peer-ungrouped proximity to extremely high because in addition to peer-group bonding replace family ties, they are also a source of affection, sympathy, and understanding, share experiences, and as a teenager to achieve the autonomy and independence.
So no wonder if teens have a tendency to adopt information received by his friends, without having a significant information base from more reliable sources. Information from friends, in this case with respect to premarital sexual behavior, curiosity sometimes leads to a series of questions that form the inner adolescent. To answer these questions and prove the truth of the information received, they tend to do, and having premarital sex behavior itself.
Effect of media and television were often imitated by young people in day-to-day behavior. For example, adolescents who watched the film were cultured teenage west, through observational learning, they see sexual behavior is fun and environmentally acceptable. It was imitated by them, sometimes without considering the differences in culture, values ??and norms of society in different environments.
Inappropriate behavior with adolescent developmental tasks in general can be affected parents. When a parent is able to provide an understanding of the sexual behavior of their children, the children tend to control their sexual behavior is in accordance with the understanding of the given parent.
This happens because it is basically the best sex education is given by the parents themselves, and can also be realized through the way of life of the elderly in the family as a husband and wife are united in marriage.
The difficulty that arises then is if the parents lack adequate knowledge causes less open attitude and tend not to provide an understanding of the problems of child sex. As a result children get unhealthy sex. A researcher concluded his research as follows: sex information that is not healthy or not in accordance with the development of this resulted teen teens involved in cases such conflicts and mental disorders, the wrong ideas and fears related to sex. In this case, the creation of conflict and mental disorders as well as ideas that one can allow a teen to do premarital sexual behavior.
Premarital sexual behavior is indeed invisible, but it does not happen by itself but rather is driven or motivated by internal factors that can not be observed directly (not visible). Thus the individual is moved to do premarital sexual behavior.
Motivation is the driving behavior. The relationship between the two constructs are quite complex, among others, can be seen as follows: The same motivation can only move the different behaviors, as well as the same behavior can be driven by different motivations. Particular motivation will encourage someone to perform certain behaviors anyway. In an adolescent, premarital sexual behavior may be motivated by a sense of compassion and love dominated by a feeling of closeness and a high arousal to the spouse, without a clear commitment (in this case called Sternberg romantic love), or because of the influence of group (conformity), where teens want to be part of the group by following the norms that have been adopted by the group, in this case the group has conducted premarital sexual behavior.
Another factor that can influence a teen to have sex before marriage because he was driven by a huge curiosity to try everything that is not known. This is a juvenile traits in general, they want to know things that can only be satisfied and accomplishment through their own experience, "Learning by doing".
This is where the problems often arise in the lives of teenagers because they want to try everything, including those associated with ketubuhannya function that also involves partner. But behind it all, the internal factors affecting teen sexual behavior leading to premarital sexual behavior in adolescents is the development of the sexual organs. It is said that the gonads (sexual glands) are still working (primary sex) not only affects the body refinement (especially in relation to secondary sex characteristics), but also affect the lives of distant psychic, moral, and social.
In the psychic life of a teenager, the sexual organ development has a strong influence in teens' interest in the opposite sex. Ketertarikkan between opposite sex is then developed into a more serious pattern of dating and choosing a dating partner and romance to be set as a life partner. While the moral life, hand in hand with the workings of gonads, conflicts often arise in adolescents. The problem that arises is a result of sexual desire and moral reasoning are often contradictory. When the sex drive is so big that a conflict is strong, then the sex drive tends to be won with various excuses to justify themselves.
Influence the development of the sexual organs of social life is that teens can make new friends, held a love relationship with the opposite sex. The love relationship is no longer manifest excessive veneration of the opposite sex and "puppy love" was not looked back. They really her adrift on an opposite sex, so it is bound by cords of love.
It should also be pointed out that the growth of sex glands (gonads) teen, is actually an integral part of the growth and overall physical development. In addition, the sexual energy or libido / desire too has experienced a long planting; Sigmund Freud said that sexual urges are accompanied by lust or libido has existed since the formation of Id. However, the sex drive is experiencing maturity at the age of adolescence. Therefore, the presence of this growth is required distribution in the form of specific sexual behaviors.
Pretty naive if we did not mention environmental factors, which have a role no less important motivating factor other premarital sexual behavior. Environmental factors varied kinds, no playmates (peer-group), the influence of media and television, and even her own parents factor.
In adolescence, peer-ungrouped proximity to extremely high because in addition to peer-group bonding replace family ties, they are also a source of affection, sympathy, and understanding, share experiences, and as a teenager to achieve the autonomy and independence. So no wonder if teens have a tendency to adopt information received by his friends, without having a significant information base from more reliable sources. Information from friends, in this case with respect to premarital sexual behavior, curiosity sometimes leads to a series of questions that form the inner adolescent. To answer these questions and prove the truth of the information received, they tend to do, and having premarital sex behavior itself.
Effect of media and television were often imitated by young people in day-to-day behavior. For example, adolescents who watched the film were cultured teenage west, through observational learning, they see sexual behavior is fun and environmentally acceptable. It was imitated by them, sometimes without considering the differences in culture, values ??and norms of society in different environments.
Inappropriate behavior with adolescent developmental tasks in general can be affected parents. When a parent is able to provide an understanding of the sexual behavior of their children, the children tend to control their sexual behavior is in accordance with the understanding of the given parent. This happens because it is basically the best sex education is given by the parents themselves, and can also be realized through the way of life of the elderly in the family as a husband and wife are united in marriage.
The difficulty that arises then is if the parents lack adequate knowledge causes less open attitude and tend not to provide an understanding of the problems of child sex. As a result children get unhealthy sex. A researcher concluded his research as follows: sex information that is not healthy or not in accordance with the development of this resulted teen teens involved in cases such conflicts and mental disorders, the wrong ideas and fears related to sex. In this case, the creation of conflict and mental disorders as well as ideas that one can allow a teen to do premarital sexual behavior.
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