Teens and sexuality
Adolescence begins with puberty, one of which includes rapid physical changes in each season. This period is characterized by the appearance of secondary sexual characteristics. Each will enter puberty at different ages. However, in general, puberty begins at age 12 to 20 years. During this period, not only physical changes but also changes in the behavior and the role it is expected individual changes.
One of the important issues in their teens about sexual behavior. Physical changes include an increase in sex hormones not only cause changes in the appearance of adolescents, such as the growth of fine hair on a certain territory, breast enlargement, voice changes, and changes in sexual organs. The rise of sex hormones, particularly testosterone, increases desire and sexual arousal in children. This condition makes teenagers want to express support and research through a variety of sexual behavior. Sexual behaviors that are often teenagers, among other things, masturbation, sexual penetration, even affection.
Masturbation and fondling himself is an alternative that is often used by teenagers to express their sexual behavior without fear of negative consequences of behavior to obtain, such as sexually transmitted diseases or pregnancy outside of marriage. Instead of sexual penetration may be accompanied by such risks as pregnancy and illnesses, sexually transmitted diseases.
Why free sex?
Many factors may lead to adolescent sexual behavior by biological factors such as hormone increased; Social factors such as peer pressure and partners; personal reasons, such as self-control of their sexual needs.
Changes in young people tend to make them more socially start forming friendships with others of its kind, and form what is called a peer. For the opposite sex, teens will start to make sense of interest and to establish a close relationship. The desire to get a deeper relationship in the production of teens begin to explore the sexual behavior that can satisfy himself. High risk of pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases through, to make choices, such as masturbation, petting and oral stimulation of the genitals, most often used by teenagers.
However, it is also possible adolescents sexual penetration. There are many factors that caused the adolescent sexual behavior ultimately decide to do so. Some of them perform sexual penetration of the high curiosity and feel ready to have sex with their partners. Many of the young people who consider sex as a way of expressing sexual penetration of affection or love for your partner as well.
Emotional factors intercourse is more important for young girls. For adolescents, physical pleasure such as to satisfy the tastes of a happy couple, overcome and eliminate tension, is considered more important. Most teenage girls have sexual relations because they have asked their partner to perform sexual intercourse. Even with the end of man is not made, if the woman does not want to, it is often the desire to be loved, to women decide to have sexual intercourse with his partner.
Enjoy the sense of sexual arousal was one of the other reasons that make teens repeatedly had sexual intercourse. The desire to feel once again experience they feel when sexual intercourse can be someone having sex in any form.
As a social and religious role of free sex?
The concept of the social environment plays an important role in sexual behavior of adolescents, it is not so. As individuals who are growing and developing, social roles are extremely high in the teenage life, especially parents and peers. Parents play an important role in creating sexual education for their children, so that children can properly understand what is called sexual behavior. Often parents, the child is considered too young to know things related to sex. However, lack of adequate education of parents, children tend to seek their own resources is not responsible for and can understand sex as something wrong.
In adolescence, there are five aspects of development, which emphasizes the promotion of sex, including options for the development of sex objects, the development of gender identity, the development of gender roles in the acquisition of skills, knowledge, values and sex, as well as the boundaries of which are sexually context, the fifth aspect is that parents need to be properly socialized youth. With good cooperation, young people must have a sense of responsibility for their sexual behavior. The responsibility will promote understanding of the importance of sexual behavior which, in turn, is expected to raise the awareness of teenagers to be careful in dealing with partners and understand the risks that may arise in practice free sex, for example, infectious diseases and pregnancy out of wedlock .
As the state by promoting religion as a role model, and must be balanced with an understanding of the religious side of sex education. For example, in Islam, if we have a girl, I taught that the border should be disclosed to anyone other than our families, called asset. It also explains why there are some parts that are to be displayed and some that should not be shown.
Other duties to teach the girls to be assertive. An example is to say no when her boyfriend wants to have sex. We must make sure that there is nothing wrong in saying there is no girlfriend. No need to be afraid to leave her boyfriend. If you specify that a person who asks her partner to have sex outside of marriage is not a human health and misplaced faith. When a man loves a woman, he would not hurt her, including invited him to have sex outside of marriage, of course, more negative consequences than positive.
In addition, the family must develop an atmosphere of love and love unconditionally. As mentioned earlier, the girl is hard to resist when you took his girlfriend to communicate because of the desire to be loved and the fear of losing the love partner. When a child receives the unconditional love of his parents, he will understand that the same thing would apply when his girlfriend. Girls should not have sex early just to get love from the opposite sex.
In fact, during the transition teen gets so much information related to sexuality. It would be better if this information is available from people you trust, such as parents than they get from friends or other things of questionable accuracy. When a teenager has gained sufficient and correct information, not least the ability to stay away from free sex is higher because teens to better understand what it means sex itself.
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